Love is without demands,
Sometimes love means standing firm,
Sometimes love means letting go,
And sometimes love means letting be…
Archive for July, 2012
• When a Guy Calls You: he Wants to be With You
• When a Guy Quite: he is Listening to You
• When a Guy is Not Arguing: he Realizes he’s Wrong
• When a Guy Says “I’m Fine”: After a Few Minutes he Means it
• When a Guy Stares at You: he Wishes You Would Care About Him ‘n Wonders if You do
• When Your Laying Your Head on a Guy’s Chest: he Has The World
• When a Guy Calls You Everyday: he is in Love
• When a Guy Tells You he Loves You: he Means it
• When a Guy Says he Can’t Live Without You: he’s With You Till You’RE Done
• When a Guy Says he Miss You: he Misses You More Than Yuh Could Miss Him.. !
If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous….
Then it’s not love .. it’s “Infatuation”
If you love some one because you think that you shouldn’t leave him because others think that you shouldn’t …
Then it’s not love.. it’s “Compromise”
If you love some one because you have been kissed by him…
Then it’s not love.. it’s “Inferiority Complex”
If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings ..
Then it’s not love .. it’s “Charity”
If you love some one because you share every thing with him …
Then it’s not love… it’s “Friendship”
BUT…
If you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable
‘n you cry for him … that’s “LOVE”
If you get attracted to other people but stay with him without any regrets… that’s “LOVE”
If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn’t want to … that’s”LOVE”
A story tells that two friends were walking through the Desert.
During some point of the journey they had an argument,
‘n one friend slapped the other one in the face.
The one who got slapped was hurt,
but without saying anything,
wrote in the sand: “TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE.”
They kept on walking until they found an oasis,
where they decided to take a bath.
The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire ‘n started drowning,
But
the friend saved him.
After he recovered from the near drowning,
he wrote on a stone: “TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE.”
The friend who had slapped ‘n saved his best friend asked him,”After I hurt you,
You wrote in the sand ‘n now, you write on a stone, why?”
The other friend replied:
“When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away.
But,
When someone does something good for us,
we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it.”
Learn to Write your Hurts in the Sand ‘n To Carve Your Benefits In Stone…
Commitment does not mean sticking to a person when you do not have any option, it means keeping a relation with someone even though you have lots of options..
Where there is love there is life..! 